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Louie posted a condolence
Monday, January 9, 2017
Heart-felt words there, Todd. I am certain Dave, Ken and Trevor your Mom and Dad and families would agree they were perfect. I would bump into Dave every once in a while and he'd always greet me with smile, a "Hello Lou" and a few subsequent laughs re the past. I will always remember the Stephen's brothers' cat "Blackie", summer days in the pool, backyard tobogganing and endless Flyers vs. Leafs (Mike Palmateer) road hockey games in your driveway. Just like those late night manhunt games, my memories of Dave and his family at 24 Amor St. will live on for life with me. My most sincere condolences.
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Todd Stephens uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, January 5, 2017
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Dave, his brothers and dad.
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Todd Stephens uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, January 5, 2017
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Dave, his brothers and mum.
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Todd Stephens uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, January 5, 2017
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Dave, his brothers and his cousins.
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Todd Stephens posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, January 5, 2017
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Thank you all for coming. You know Dave probably wouldn't have wanted all of this. In fact, he's probably laughing at us all dressed up in our suits and ties. Dave was far more comfortable in a hockey jersey, a baseball hat and jeans. That's pretty much what he is wearing right now. Getting ready this morning I could hear him say – wear your hat, who’s going to say anything. I’m wearing mine.
Kenneth, David, Todd and Trevor. The Stephens boys. Growing up we had our share of adventures and rough and tumble times. I don't know how my mother kept her sanity. Captured snakes were left in jean pockets that went through the wash. Caught fish were placed in bathtubs so we could keep them as pets. Games of sock hockey played in the kitchen. Wrestling matches and pillow fights that usually got out of control but they were fun until someone ended up hurt and crying - usually Trevor or I since we were the younger ones. Jumping off the roof, manhunt in the pitch black and shooting homemade bows and arrows at each other. Looking back I'm surprised we made it this far.
When we were teens we had a few disagreements as brothers do. I remember the time I broke into his comic collection he kept in a locked army box or when I used his ice hockey equipment to play road hockey. He was mad but he left me off relatively easy. No broken bones. And there still is the question of whether I was thrown or jumped down the stairs during a fight. I wasn't really hurt. That is just what brothers do to each other sometimes.
Really though Dave was more like that brother in the Coke commercial that would tease you a little (put something up high where you can't reach it) but cared for you and protected you (like taking the Coke back from the bullies and giving it back to you. - and then dumping the bottle when you went to drink it.) On my first day of high school I was nervous and he said - relax you'll be fine no one is going to bother you, you're Fuzz's brother. I've got your back. We always felt like Dave had our backs.
Dave was smart, he was quick witted, but most of all he was caring. When I befriended Andrew and brought him to Dover, he opened his home and his heart to him. He called Andrew the 5th Stephens brother and teased him like the rest of us. When Nannie became more and more sick he looked after her. He even carried her up the stairs every night to her room when she could no longer climb the stairs herself. Dave always made sure everyone was looked after and comfortable before he would even think of himself.
Kenneth is the dutiful eldest, Trevor is the youngest who wears his emotions on his sleeve and Dave was laid back and even-keeled. He was always the voice of reason. Dave was my go to guy to talk to when family issues arose. He was a great listener and sounding board. He often said a lot without saying anything at all - just a look, a face or a gesture helped you find your answer.
When Dave got sick, we got together more often and spent time together. Not just texts and calls, but some good face to face time. I'm glad I got the chance to look after him for once. I know how much Ken loved going out for coffee or just out for drives with Dave. Dave appreciated everything people did for him. He talked about all of you. He spoke very appreciatively about everything mom and dad did for him throughout his illness - the numerous appointments, the bedside company, the support, the clothes, the food but most importantly the love.
Dave loved his family and friends, but first and foremost he wanted to protect them too. He tried to shield everyone from his pain and suffering. He was stubborn about not telling everyone about his condition. He didn't complain or share too much. He didn't want us to worry or feel bad. He faced his illness with grace, courage and a quiet dignity. I'm so proud of him and of how he kept his sense of humour in face of all of this.
Carly and Christopher were everything to him. He started and ended every conversation with news about them. He was so proud of them and loved them so much. I always admired the caregiving side of my brother - the way he took care of them when they were young children. He kissed boo boos and played with them every chance he got. He was a good man and a great dad.
Driving down to Dover for a visit, we would make a point of first going by the Dover Dairy General store. I would look for the hat and the hair in the window and if he was working which he almost always was, we'd stop and catch up. I know he touched many people with his easygoing demeanour, politeness and sense of humour in the 30 years he worked there. Dave was a Dover boy. For many people Dave was the Dover Dairy General.
We want to thank David's friends. You helped us realize what good friends he had. Your simple words and acts of kindness and caring toward Dave were truly heartfelt. Dave loved you all.
Dave was a goalie and when he got ill he battled long and hard in his crease for Carly and Christopher. He never gave up, he just couldn't stop cancer.
Carly and Christopher we are so sorry you lost your dad. He didn’t want to leave you. Always remember you have 3 uncles who will always be here for you.
We're not ready to say goodbye so we'll keep Dave in our thoughts and in our hearts. It will always be Kenneth, David, Todd and Trevor - the Stephens brothers.
Today remember Dave fondly and pray for his family. We ask as brother Dave would say: I’m okay. Take a break. Go home. Love your family. Love your friends. Be at peace.
Thank you.
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Todd Stephens uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, January 5, 2017
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The Stephens boys - Kenneth, David, Todd and Trevor
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Marshall Thompson posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 4, 2017
My sincere condolences to Todd, Trevor, Ken and the entire Stephens family for your loss.
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Tilly Crotta and Mary Kearns posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 4, 2017
Our deepest condolences on the passing of Fuzz. He was always pleasant and friendly and a good guy.
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Chris and Tracey VanSickle pledged to donate to Port Dover Minor Hockey
Tuesday, January 3, 2017
Bob and family: Thinking of you during this difficult time XO
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Fl Smith posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 3, 2017
Our condolences to Dave's family.Fuzz was one of kind always good for a laugh when we delivered to the General.
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Chris and Jerry Sinkowski posted a condolence
Monday, January 2, 2017
Dear Bob and Doreen,
So sorry for the loss of your son. No one should have to out live their child. It must be a very difficult time.
Love always,
Chris and Jerry Sinkowski
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Katrina Ferguson posted a condolence
Monday, January 2, 2017
Thinking of you all, my deepest condolences.
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Murray & Penny Jamieson posted a condolence
Monday, January 2, 2017
Bob & Carol and Family
So sorry to hear of your lost of such a young fellow. Our prayers go out to you and the families of all. God Bless and rest in Paradise David.
Murray & Penny Jamieson
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Rosemary Mclaughlin posted a condolence
Monday, January 2, 2017
I am so sorry for your family's loss.
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Richard Greenall posted a condolence
Monday, January 2, 2017
My condolences to the family on such a horrible loss. Fuzz was my best friend growing up and I spent many a day with him over at his parents having a blast. Always went to Friday night hockey games at the arena to watch him guard that net with amazing skill. It was a second home for me, and Dave was a very big part of that home for everyone.
Safe trip my friend. Your friendship will always have a special place in my heart.
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The Pineo's posted a condolence
Sunday, January 1, 2017
We are very sorry to hear of Fuzz's passing and wanted to pass on our sincere condolences to all the family. Especially Carly and "Wee Fuzz"....He was a fantastic guy and will be missed. Love Rich, Karen, Jack and Luke
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Julie Payne posted a condolence
Sunday, January 1, 2017
Our deepest condolences to the family and friends of David. We are heartbroken that Carly and Chris have lost their gentle, easy going, loving father, far far too soon. We promise to do all that we can to keep his memory alive. We are sorry that we cannot be there to pay our respects in person, as we are travelling in BC until Jan 5. But our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Julie, Keith and Charlotte
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Richard Harrison posted a condolence
Sunday, January 1, 2017
Gone too young. Fuzzy was a good guy with a big heart. Will miss him (our 'Safety Guy') at the Sherman Ranch.
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Julie Payne uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, January 1, 2017
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If you want to make this public you are welcome to. I like this photo, taken on holiday in Mexico about three years ago. David was very happy there - loving the sun, the ocean and spending time with his kids.
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Marion and Paul Cober posted a condolence
Sunday, January 1, 2017
To David's Family
It was with sorrow that we read of David's passing. We remember him fondly through his growing up years, through school, hockey as a goalie and friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
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Diane Van Echten posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
Carol and Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your;son s passing. Please accept my sincerest condolences. Love
Diane Van Echten
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Crystal Gignac, Bruce, Al, Shar Douglas posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you...
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Shannon Bailey (Persall) posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
My deepest condolences to David's family and friends...I grew up in Dover and went to school with Fuzz..it's been a long time, but I remember him well. May the good memories give you comfort at this difficult time.
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Sharie Edwards posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
To All the Family of Fuzz(Dave ) , My sincere condolences on the passing of a great guy, who would always say " Hi" .
Going to miss seeing that smiling face around town .
Sincerely
Sharie Edwards
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Marlon Hill posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
My condolences to the Stephens family.I am very sorry for your loss.
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Gord and Sandy Annison posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
We will surely miss your great sense of humor and wit. May peace be with you always. Our condolences to your family
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Barb Oakes and Bob Laurie posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
Our deepest condolences to the family of "Fuzz". We knew him from the Dover Dairy General. He was a great guy. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
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Mike Seez posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
Our deepest condolences to David's family. I am so sad to hear of this loss. A bright light turn off way too soon.
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Carol-Lee Matthews lit a candle
Saturday, December 31, 2016
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Steve, Debbie, Ashley and Shae-Lynne posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
Our sincere condolences to the Stephens family. You are all in our thoughts
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Brian Murphy posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
My good friend you will be always be fuzz in my heart. That goofy smirk and those awful Zippo tricks. I have several great memories of the low road days when you lived with Radar. It has been a pleasure being your friend and even though you are gone you are never forgotten.
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Carol Snow (nee Steinhoff) posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
My sincere condolences to David's family. I have so many fond memories of him as we grew up together. He was kind and so funny; he always had an easy way of making people laugh. He was also the first boy i ever kissed. It happened over at the old Port Dover Public School.....a memory i have always treasured and always will.
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Mary Ann Walsh posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
My deepest sympathy. David was taken far too young. Hugs & love to all.
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Ray&Sheila Corbett and Family posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
Bob & Doreen and family
Our sincere condolences on the passing of David
Know you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time
Love The Corbetts
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Marty Wagenaar & Chrystal Lemery posted a condolence
Saturday, December 31, 2016
Our deepest symathy to the entire Stephens Family. Please know that each one of you are in our thoughts and prayers. ~ Much Love From the Wagenaar Family
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Joan Benvenuti posted a condolence
Friday, December 30, 2016
Trevor and Teresa, I was so sorry to hear the news of Dave's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you
and your family.
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Ralph and Debbie Keefer posted a condolence
Friday, December 30, 2016
So sorry to hear about Dave's passing. Such a great guy gone way to young. You will be missed Fuzz. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
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Julie Mallon & Steve Stark posted a condolence
Friday, December 30, 2016
Our condolences to the whole family.
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Shelley Wenige posted a condolence
Friday, December 30, 2016
So very sorry to hear of Dave's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. RIP Dave
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Lee and Gina Bertrand posted a condolence
Friday, December 30, 2016
Our sincere condolences on the passing of Fuzz...he was a great guy and will be missed dearly. Our thoughts and love are with all of you at this difficult time.
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Shelly Ivey posted a condolence
Friday, December 30, 2016
I am so very sorry for your loss. I as well as many Port Doverites hold so many warm memories of Fuzz. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Shelly
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Ann L'Ecuyer Musselman lit a candle
Friday, December 30, 2016
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What a wonderful young man! Always smiling, polite, kind ~ It has been an honor to know you Dave ~ You will always be a Treasure in my life. Rest in Peace ~ Blessings & Love, Ann
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Thursday, December 29, 2016
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